Heard the same from my W . It's not about OM it's about us but then Says she can't give up OM because they have fun together . I'm not sure going to a pub getting pissed is fun but to her it is.
I agree with jim the OM becomes a crutch /cushion / reason to leave . I wonder how many OM get used to just give them a reason/catalyst to leave.
Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .
