Well, to clarify, "Crimson" is for "Cream and Crimson" - a la Indiana University. Though I do have a Tide friend or two -and they are virtually unbearable during football season.
With regard to your pending divorce? The best advice that I can give you based on what I have been through is so peacefully accept that it is going to happen. As a coping strategy, you might want to even treat it as if it already has and begin defining your post-marriage life.
Does that mean give up? Nope.
Does that mean slide into depression? Nope.
What it means is something that you already know -- the marriage/relationship that you once knew is dead and even if you reunite it will never be back again the way you knew it.
Also, and I got this advice a lot, remember that D is just a point in time...another day....just a process and a set of signatures on paper. You are already living the reality of divorce for the most part. If you divorce on a Monday, the sun will come up again on Tuesday and you will keep moving forward, my friend.
