zed: Some excellent advice you got there from Drew.

Originally Posted By: Drew
you can't talk your way out of something your actions got you into.
I cried. It's something I only realized when my wife walked out after a week of pleading and begging -- actually, I may have realized it only when I read it here. I think we go back to words because we can cram so many of them in an encounter while our actions are more like drops in a bucket. But these drops are real and words are not. If we're honest to ourselves, it's much easier to say that we've changed than to show it. I know I had almost all the right words from day 1, but the true realizations and actions come slowly. Everyday I realize something important about my R that would make me a better man.


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D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.