Hey ganb8te, SO looking forward to Mr Bond's advice for you!
Jumping in here on the FB topic. Even though you are not friends on Fb maybe you can use it to communicate some things to your H. He might be stalking your profile too ... if so maybe consider making some of your posts public if you are comfortable with that. Or just change your profile pic to something fun and sexy and gorgeous, and update your background pic every once in a while to something very exciting and cool and GAL related? Just an idea... if he looks, it might make him curious.
I know FB is working to my advantage with my WAH. We are "friends" however, and also have 100 "friends" in common. That helps. I work the FB angle as much as I can without being too obvious.
