Zed: I want to reinforce the idea that you shouldn't ask her to explain how she feels it went wrong. It will only reinforce her. You feed what you emphasize. Don't make her articulate what she dislikes about you and your R, it will strengthen it and occupy more of her mind space. I've once read that the best way to reinforce a person's opinion is to attack it.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
