Hi Little, Great response to the texts. Funny I see our situations as so similar. My H could have written those texts... keeping in touch because of random items he finds of mine is his favorite reason.
You did great!
Regarding his false reasons for the break up and your anger, I think Mr Bond answered it perfectly (of course). But I just want to chime in and say I definitely have the same experiences, as I know many of us do. And I'd like to add that my WAH is now forgetting the reasons he gave for leaving. He even tells me the opposite things now. So if you can, try not to think about it too much. My H was fishing for reasons when the true main reason was his exciting attraction to OW.
I still get angry about those things he said but if you know they aren't true, just try to stop the thought with something like "he's in a crazy fog"...
I love the advice from Mr Bond. I'll have to practice some of those tips!
