Thanks a lot Lisa. You're right, I've no evidence that W has hypomania. And you're even righter that I couldn't do anything about it. I wouldn't. I think I explore this idea as part of my efforts to understand what happened and what's happening now. In fact, thinking she has hypomania could help me keep my distances, as it's a different, medical way to say that she can't be reasoned with at the moment. Whatever keeps me on the DB path...

I suggested lunch next Wednesday or Thursday but she hasn't replied. We met for one minute this morning to exchange the kids' suitcase. I had trouble sleeping because of the anticipation... It went well. I noticed her new coat, she noticed my new scarf and that I smell nice. We weren't sure about kissing before going our separate ways, like two strangers. We did, on the cheeks of course.


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.