Well, I told the in-laws I would love to see them, but the decision of whether or not to make the 14-hour trip is theirs. I know they want to help, and my heart hurts for them, because they are in a difficult position. Part of me thinks their physical presence here would help, and part of me thinks that my WAW will think I put them up to it or simply get angry at them for not respecting her decision to move on with another person. I don't think she'd cut off contact with them permanently, so I don't see how it could make the situation any worse than it already is.


M 16 T 17
W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14
ILYBNIL 5/14
A discovered 6/14
D papers served via USPS 8/14
Filed my response 9/14
D final 5/15...