Wow - that is almost exactly what I think happened to my fiance - he met a woman on a plane who stroked his ego and made him feel good, and then he started to rewrite our life and history to justify his actions.

Very similar. Except my fiance now wants out so he can pursue the OW and this other life? And there is nothing I can do to stop him.

How are you feeling now?

Engaged Aug 2009
Fiancé had doubts Jan 2010
Happily re-engaged July 2012
Discovery of affair July 2014
Separated July 2014
Fiancé is confused about whom to choose
Chose the OW Oct 2014