Not a hijack. I agree with what you're both saying. But in my case the parenting thing really complicates things for me. I am a terrible judge for whether or not I'm being reasonable about things. He's entitled to his own ideas. But we don't communicate, I deal with ALL the parenting issues and he just parties with them every other weekend. He's sucking juice out of my Love Tank without even knowing such a thing is possible. I can't allow myself to build resentment if I want to rebuild a relationship with him, but I feel like I'm riding a bike uphill behind a guy who keeps throwing tacks under my tires.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.