Sigh. Zues you really have figured out that validation thing. I suppose I could have added more to my text exchange with H just now. I'm just so frustrated with him. And now he's skipped calling the kids two nights in a row.

We are not reconciling now. So I don't need to take that part on right now. It can wait till things get better in my head.

Somebody tell me how I SHOULD be doing this, because I don't think I'm going anywhere but backward.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.