Just posted on maybells thread, I'm interested in what your thoughts are. You're definitely much further along than me, I'm just over 4 months in...but I think this is something we all face a number of times. I get its tough because no one should live their entire life like this, and while we have to ignore what we see/hear that can seem delusional after a certain amount of time.
Why is it that only DB coaches feel like there's hope? I'm not cynical enough to think its simply because we're paying them to tell us that...most of the time
Take care Claire!
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15