The Goddess of Goats Thrives Alone on Her Mountain

[GoatGal]

Wonka,

I will be sure to check out your updates.
I've seen that chick pic, cracks me up too!


Although in my case, I have to say contacting H at work is a 180 for me.

I had stopped being interested in his job right about the time he was using it as a "cover" for OW.
And, to be honest, I've never been big on talking on the phone, texting, or making small talk in general.
I always disliked that "And how was YOUR day" question.

But H (yes, he's back to "H" at the moment) likes to stay in touch.
And it seemed to go well after his initial reservation.

Actually, I didn't ask "how's work" I asked "How is your day going?"
Same thing, I know, but he's always seemed more comfortable with me at a remote location. You know, likes me best when I'm not around. (Sad, but seems true, I guess lately.)

So although I will heed your advice, I will see how it plays out.
I think he'd feel more "intruded upon" were I to call/text to check in with him in the evenings, when he's 1. Drinking 2. On line doing who knows what.

THAT I'm pretty sure he would get tired of quickly for a whole bunch of reasons.
But yeah. He likes to tell me how great he is at his job. So I let him.

It's really the only thing he feels confident about at this point, something he's proud of.
But I consider myself warned to proceed with caution!


---(G)GGG