First off, be sure you break up your post with paragraph and line breaks. That description of your vacation was very hard to read.
"on a negative note, after the suspension bridge she did mention "i know that there are things that you want. there are things that i want, and they are in conflict, and i'm gonna choose me". i didn't really say anything to that just let her talk."
Why is that negative? She's right. The challenge is to show her that you can be a part of that journey of her finding herself.
"one of my biggest concerns is that i see many posters on here letting the WAS see what life would be like without them."
You misunderstand this action. It's not to let the WAS see what life is without them. It's just giving the WAS what they want. They say they don't want the LBS around, so you leave. This way too, the LBS doesn't become a constant target for the WAS.
"my problem is that i was not here with them for 10 months and she did it on her own. any reason that i can still hope? anyone?"
There's always hope. What else have you been doing to change the issues that she had with you in the M?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
