Drew - I'm in OK. I wouldn't be 'moving out' per se. She wants to go back to her at the house with the kids M-F, with me having dinner or interaction with kids one day a week, or more, and taking S7 to school in mornings.

Then I would have the boys, at the same house, our house, Friday afternoon - Sunday evening.

I don't think it would be interpreted as abandonment.

I just don't know if I should do what I feel is right for me, or what I think might give me a better chance at reconciliation. I do think there's a chance. Should I let her throw her fit, or not risk it?

123Gwen - I absolutely agree with you. She definitely has a hard time believing it's possible. she thinks there are things she can not forgive or get over. I just don't know how much of a harda** to be right now about what's right for me and our children.

Last edited by Chnging; 10/23/14 09:43 PM.

H - 33 W - 31
Married 7 years 9 mos
2S - 7 and 3