In our discussion yesterday, when I put my foot down and said I would not leave (She's welcome to leave, come and go as she likes, I'm giving her space), she seemed to make it clear that if I did not give her the space in the way that she wants it (ie. us rotating the house, but not living together, me not staying in the house full time), then she will file for divorce.
She pulled the "if you respect me as a person, if you love me the way you say you do" card.
I know, I know, believe none of what you hear and half of what you see.
Should I stay firm and not leave the house? I'm not badgering her, asking her whereabouts, nothing. But she is uncomfortable with me being there and almost every night has left after dinner and come home at midnight or later.