I am REALLY worried about your financial sitch and the D and custody..... why?
Because in my D, W cannot provide properly right now for having 2 teenagers. She has a room in a house, nowhere for them to sleep like a shared bedroom. She makes under $10 and hour, has no internet, etc.
Guess who is getting full custody to start with, until she does?
Me.
Thing is, I am a man of my word, and stable, non-vindictive...so when she CAN, consistently,provide the basics, the custody can be modified. I am writing that into the decree.
Your W? I wouldn't bet on it right now...
I want a fire under you because of that ^^^...
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