Just got an email. More later but this is a touchy situation. Can anyone help me with some validating and supportin replies for something like this? One complaint she had was that I wasn't there for her through tough times. I'm wired a little differently and this doesn't come easy to me. Beyond saying I'm sorry, that's tough, let me know if you need anything or more help with the kids to make time for her...what else can I say that's appropriate?

EMAIL:
My aunt XXX has Cancer. She is in XXx right now and had surgery on Tuesday. Apparently the cancer was described as a paint can dropped and splattering all over. They removed the big chunks and planned chemo for the rest of the little stuff. However, this morning she had a stroke and and aneurysm on top of it. She will never be able to walk or talk again. Not good. She most likely won't be coming back here. HUSBAND and the girls are making the big hard decisions now. It's just all horrible.

Last edited by Zues126; 10/23/14 08:24 PM.
Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15