I have had to be careful about allowing more than I'm comfortable with lately. It's been hard as I know she needs to find her place in her new life around so many new people and she does need the freedom to do that. At the same time, she also needs to understand that things are different and whether she likes it or not, she needs to adjust somewhat.
One suggestion…..VERY CLEAR BOUNDARIES…for example – you may want to tell your D that on X days….she should NOT make plans – those days are days she is supposed to be with you. The more you give in….the more she will take. It is a very difficult balance to find. I think having learned this from D19, you’ll do just fine.
Originally Posted By: posted by the guy with balls the size of coconuts
It's time to take YOUR LIFE back, and the only way is to stop with the excuses and take action, be bold, have balls the size of coconuts, whatever it takes to get income coming in...
Because F**k That....
Great advice up there ^^^ by “Mr. T”.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
