If you have a discussion w/him, please try to remain clam. The calmer you are, the more he may listen. It's when we get really emotional that they tune us out completely and think we are just having a bad day. State what is on your mind and stick to your boundaries.
Good luck!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
