RL, Never a dull moment w/your xh and his Russian twinkle twat. Sounds to me like she doesn't want him to have any contact w/anyone. This is what a person w/a ND personality does, i.e., ensures that the partner is secluded and doesn't have any contact w/anyone. Oh, well, he's gotten what he wished for in his fantasy land, the Russian, a new country and lots of peace and quiet. I'm sure the Genie in the Bottle didn't plan on him being all by his lonesome like this, but he should have had some inkling what it was going to be like.
As for you, you sound great and I hope that your eyes get better in time. You had asked about my knee...it's doing great. No pain, back to everything that I doing pre-op and I've not regretted the surgery one bit. Thanks for asking.
RL, continue as you have been doing. You don't know what the future holds for you, but you can enjoy every minute of today and know it's a gift and time doesn't stand still for any of us. You did everything you could to try to save your marriage and you can rest easier knowing that you tried.
Enjoy today, for it is a gift.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
