Life After Is Looking Better Than Ever!

[Azagtoth]

Mindsin,

Thanks for the response. I haven't seen your thread yet but I will check it out! If your BD was recently (you mentioned 3+ months of ugly side) then yes, it's still pretty raw and I remember where I was at that time! Hang in there the best you can and I hope the best for you! If it does not work out, understand there is a life after and you WILL survive it better than you think!!!!!

A little update; seems like the X has begun to "hit the wall"! I don't know why but she seems to feel the need of telling me her woes! I am done so now it is more of an interesting and humorous "case study" for me to watch her go through her "transition". It is pretty amazing once you step back and detach, you can see the train wreck looking for a place to happen. Apparently her BF dumped her, she can't get a second date with anyone she goes out with; no man wants to commit to a relationship and all they want is a hook up!

Maybe she should google "men on strike"; the answers are there! Sorry, but the dating game gets worse for women and better for men as we age; just the trend! And most who have been run through the wringer once and understand the consequences of marriage aren't going to just launch off into a new commitment until they know for damn sure what they are dealing with and have their butts covered the next time around!!!!! The next generation have been watching there dads get fleeced and run over the coals in the lop-sided courts and most have decided enough is enough and the potential of loss is too great!!!!!


Azagtoth