Claire, I really needed to hear what you just said. I am missing my H today too, but as you mention, it's hard to really miss or want a man who would be doing all these destructive behaviors and then wallowing in their own self-pity. It's not attractive. Still, I hurt. I guess it just takes time to get over that.


M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!