Claire, I really needed to hear what you just said. I am missing my H today too, but as you mention, it's hard to really miss or want a man who would be doing all these destructive behaviors and then wallowing in their own self-pity. It's not attractive. Still, I hurt. I guess it just takes time to get over that.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!