Nero, I love you to bits, but you are the Queen of Mind Reading when it comes to your H. Did it ever occur to you that maybe he is NOT trying to "buy his way out of guilt"? Touching you, and taking you on trips, and playing with your hair sounds more like personal affection towards YOU Nero, not like guilt. Wouldn't you think that if he was just feeling guilty, he would just pay your bills but not touch you? And are you SURE that he is still seeing OW?

Believe me, my ex did not touch me for YEARS before our divorce, the only trips we went on were unavoidable family stuff, not fun stuff with just the two of us, and he talked incessantly about the Russian. Just sayin......

How is your niece, and how is the probate coming along? Has your sister taken out a mortgage so she can buy the rest of you guys out of your mom's house? Hang in there, and remember, UR and I are both just a phone call away, and would both love to see you again smile


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17