standing for me

[Ahoy]

Thanks so much you guys, although I don't deserve the praise for the PMA at the moment, since I'm sobbing semi-uncontrollably for no specific reason. I'm not crying because I want my crazy H back. I'm just grieving. I wish I had someone to just hold me and let me cry. I hate this so much.

Lisa, it's good to have your perspective from the kids' point of view. May I ask: did you parents live far apart? How was it for you?

I think I'll have to wait to talk to D14 until after H and I have dissolved the M because if the lawyers or judge gets wind of a possible move, we won't be allowed to file dissolution, and would have to pursue a more costly and time-consuming divorce, and I don't want to draw this process out over the course of the year (maybe that's where I'm a bad DBer -- not being patient enough).

It's stupid to be crying about stupid jerk of an H. I think I'm still in shock that he's doing this at all.

I'm so grateful to all of you for the support. Just wish you lived close by...