hi Bright! Thanks for checking up on me. I've been reading some of your current threads, and was wondering, have you actually seen your H in the past 2 1/2 years, or has all your communication been emails and text messages? This must be extremely rough on you, my poor friend. It sounds like you never split your business apart either....

I often wonder what is worse - having your MLCer living in your home, so you have to witness all of their shenanigans in person, or having a WAH who keeps contacting you via text, whose shenanigans you can only imagine, like you have for so long? I have learned that the romantic, sensual, loving, fulfilling relationship I imagined my ex and the Russian to have has turned out to be far from the truth.

I laughed, having just turned 62, when you said you have a mental picture of "old H" 15 years from now, a doddering old man "still a good guy, just going through some difficult times." But you are right Bright, 15 years is WAY too long to live in Limbo. I was sorry to read that you read all of your H's emails to that young Mexican girl. Bleech. That must have hurt, don't do that to yourself anymore, okay?

How is your visit with your mom going? I remember what a fiasco that was last year frown


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17