Also she is in an affair. 13 year marriage broken. We are 40 and have 5 year old twins. I have been suggested to go straight to divorce as I am the only one working on the marriage. I have a history of depression so going through therapy. What more would you suggest than 180?

ME:40 W:40
M:13
D:5, D:5
Still in the same house

Me: 43, W: 43
M: 16, T: 18
D - 7, D - 7
ILUB: 26 August 2014
Still living together