Recent Separation...trying to cope

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Thanks for the encouragement gogofo. Its so hard to think that she seems so firm in her decision to D. I stayed positive when she sort of mentioned D, acting 'as if', so that helped.

I failed to mention earlier, I let her know that whether or not she wanted to stay in the M, that I was asking her to stay. Basically letting her know that the door is still open and was still willing to work on things. She didn't say anything after that. I don't know if it was the right thing to say but I felt I needed to let her know.