Not just you mate, not just you. Check out my thread as I wont hijack yours but every time I think we're on an even keel and heading in a direction (not reconciliation - just a straightforward direction) my W decides to go at right angles.
Hold on in there.
Ed
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015