Jay, I also agree with Wonka's comments on your last topic page. It doesn't matter whether you W was with a woman or a man. She is having an affair. This is something that I made myself aware of way back in the beginning of my sitch. My W was/is having an affair, and the family are the ones who make the choice to either accept it or condone it. If the family want to accept what the W is/was doing, then that is there call. They can live with it. I bet the family is struggling dealing with the W when at family events, but I am sure it would be the same if she turned up with a man instead of a woman. Two years down the track my W is still acting cold. She didn't want to work together for our son's 21st party, and when his fiancee walked away from him, the W chose not to tell me at all. I don't or try not to in most cases, accept it personally. Sometimes I simply feel she is embarrassed with what she has done, simply cannot face up to it, or accept what she has done. Like all LBS's, I hope things turn out the best for you, but you have to do the work, DB work.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
