I would tell wife that you do not feel friend would be an appropriate god mother to your daughter. I would say if she feels previous godmother is not appropriate then both can choose a new one that both can agree on.
Your wifes friend sounds like my sister in law. Like to cause trouble since they are liberated women, but will run when the going gets tough.
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