Newcomer living in Hell

[bravo61]

it really bothered me, that mess up about the heights. she said that she had trusted me with the info bout her fears and how i had wanted to "really" know her and it ended up like that.on the way back from the ferry last night, she was quiet and i tried to draw her out of the mind set of focusing on the negative, i started to ask questions. ranging from favorite color, flower, pasta, songs, bands, different situations that would set off her anxieties. she asked why the questions and i let her know that i want to learn how to listen and apply what i know so that there won't be a situation like that in the future. she seemed to enjoy answering all my questions and we ended up going back and forth like that for a couple of hours.