Maybe I should move my thread to another board as I now seem to be moving into more divorce related stuff.
Went to STBXs attorneys to be served with papers today. Nothing too surprising. As he has mentioned several times he basically wanted to give me "everything" (not that there is much to split up).
He's asking for more visitation time - but not 50% which is a relief ( More like 70/30). There was an order that we maintain the current arrangement - so I had to email him and ask him for permission to take the girls to Disneyland since this is scheduled for his normal day and he responded "of course" and then said that they had made him fill it out that way and he had told them we would be able to work it out and that he would defer to me. We'll see - not holding my breath.
One item I found interesting - many of the papers were dated the day before he emailed me on the 8th asking if I was planning on filing.
Anyway...we're scheduled for mediation. Guess I should atually see if he wants to talk about it ahead of time.
