I just don't think you should talk to her about your relationship or her hypocrosy.

Saying one thing and doing another is par for the course.

Check out the Laura Munson book - this isn't the season you think it is.

You should order it now.

Please new comers need to realize do not engage in these conversations with them. You need to find outside sources to confide in - these boards, therapists, close friends. But don't talk to them

I do not agree with igits reply because it's a come back. Do not try to debate these lunatics. You are right and they are crazy. You have zero chance of winning a debate.

You are on the right track. Do not fall for the set up of talking about it


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13