How on earth do you do that with kids???

(Sorry for the hijack, Tar, but you probably need to know this too)

I mean, OK, he's left ME and I'm still standing, and I'm fine. But in ways that matter very dearly to the kids, he's left them too, and I can't help but keep an eye on what he does and feel a necessity (which is different from an emotional need) to keep an eye on the rope because the kids come to ME with their hurt and sadness over his disappearing act rather than to him. I direct them back to him but I still have to comfort them.

Is there a difference?

Last edited by Maybell; 10/23/14 01:00 AM.
Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.