I will tell you right now that you are definitely not in Piecing. He hasn't done anything to work on his own issues and has done nothing to move closer to you. All he is doing is rug sweeping you.
Your D is not busted.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.