Hahaha, Wonka!

Yeah. The Property Brothers would work. Definitely!



Thanks for reminding me about the reconnection. I do see that happening, if I'm reading it right.

There is the college girlfriend, spending more time with co-workers (I think) and although this bugs me a bit (borderline inappropriate, buying friendship, not really getting a life of his own, or perhaps going out to meet other women), it's at least something he's doing that's social.

He does seems to connect more with the animals, and is talking about missing them more. That is one huge thing we have in common, and no matter how deep he is in his tunnel, he knows that I'm pretty much going to be the only who would be willing to share this reality with him.

I don't believe there is a woman in the world who would move into this mess. Not one who wasn't totally nuts, anyway!

He is talking more about other people we've known. That's also rather new.
"So and so asked about you." (I wonder, what does he tell them?)

Both my parents have gone through severe depressions, and one of the first signs I see that they're coming out is they start thinking about people other than themselves.
While in depressed mode, they don't care about ANYBODY.
I mean A-N-Y-B-O-D-Y!

And if they do notice other people, it's to comment on how annoying/uncaring/awful/backstabbing/users they are.

I couldn't make this stuff up if I tried.

GUBU has made his share of disparaging remarks about lovely people we've known, even the woman who continues to house him for free.

Just like my mother. Who loves her friends when she's in her right mind, but has not a nice word to say about any of them when she's depressed.


Thanks for checking in. It's always great to hear from the Chocolate Factory!


--(G)GGG


Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?