Your reports are so interesting to read! You can write, girl!
As you may know, oftentimes the MLCer will connect through their children, pets, family...etc FIRST before finally connecting with the LBS. Also they do visit and stay at the home for a bit longer over time. So it seems to me that your H is slowly working his way backwards toward you. You are not the Devil Incarnate in his mind. Sure, the spews will come from time to time. Which brings me to a wonderful comment by a poster recently:
Originally Posted By: PeterV2
In my first marriage I would get a barrage of vicious emails. I never replied. If there was an email that was civil I would reply quickly. That sends the message that spewing is not rewarded but civil discourse is.
Hmmmm...might want to think about how you react to GUBU's nasty texts. Then pick out those that are fairly civil. I know from reading your posts, GGG, that you strive to do this most of the time.
This is a good reminder when dealing with the MCLer.
Kicking a whole in the wall...well, I thought it would have happened a lot sooner than this! Hey, you might want to think about calling the Property Brothers to renovate your dinky place. It also can't hurt that you can oogle two HOT men while they're working on it!!
Hey, you might want to think about calling the 
