Everyone is different. I told my wife in no uncertain terms that I'd agree to a separation so she can do what she wants without having to look at me all the time, and revisit what we want at a time in the future TBD by her.
No dice.
Evaluating your posts at face value, it seems that there is alot of anger jumping around the two of you, and you need to get some distance emotionally and physically. How you choose to do that is your business.
How do you want to be remembered? 1 year from now? 10? 50?
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20
