I will. I miss y'all too! You guys keep me sane!!!
I'm relieved to know you have more time with your granddaughter before the move. It will be hard, no matter what. But, if I might offer a small piece of (useless, hard-to-live) advice: Try to enjoy the time from now through February, offering little-to-no energy to what comes after that. I was advised several years ago to "stop grieving LIFE." Easier said than done, though, I'm afraid.
And "drinking to drink"? Boy! I'll drink to THAT!!! Cheers, brother ... and gigantic hugs ...
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014