Yes I understand, I just put all the things into play at once for the sleeping in bed,,,I don't spoon often if at all, I get too hot (and not in a good way).

I will watch for patterns, I will go VERY slow, I will try to not throw out the baby with the bath water...

BUT if he chooses to sleep in basement, I will no longer allow it to affect how I feel (TRY NOT)

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW