Feeling stronger than ever

[mleigh4]

My issue is not knowing who was in my house. Everything I own is in there. Valuables, intimate things, my son's things. This person knows where I live. I am NOT OK with this. I know he is lying, I can feel it. He has never talked about Phil, never said he has hung out with Phil, Phil has never been over, there is no way he decided to come "hang out" while H was so busy getting ready for hunting. H is lying. My therapist says it doesn't matter what is causing the issues, what matters is how it effects me and my son. He wants me to get out of the R. I agree that H should leave. His behavior upsets our home way too much and I am so sick of it all. Legally I can't boot him and he isn't leaving on his own.

When I left this morning for work, H asked if we needed anything at the store or Costco. Nice try. I told him we need to talk about his visitor, that I am not buying it. He just said "ok". I know where this person lives and will go over there if I have to to get the truth.

I know I am stirring up the pot and kicking the dust. But when it comes to my home, patience and compassion is out the window. If I didn't feel so strongly about him lying, I wouldn't be doing this.