Married young, W had affair w/ coworker

[Starsky309]

To answer the question, I don't think I would do anything differently if the affair was continuing.

Then there's your answer. For me, in my own sitch, continued contact with her ex-OM after my wife had promised no-contact and transparency was an absolute dealbreaker, so I continued to gather some random intel.

Each man must know his own core boundaries.


Starsky