What you said about the GAL stuff is on point, so thank you. I just signed up for a swing dancing class one night a week-she loves to dance and I'm terrible at it. Also we moved to a new area so it'll be a good way to make friends, and a fun thing to do with my older ones. After that becomes a habit I'll try to build and find another cool thing to do.
A couple of things here.
Was she drinking like this before you got married and you married anyways? Did you think she would change after marriage?
When you make changes to yourself ^^^^^ it is for YOU. To make yourself into the person that YOU want to be. Not to win her back. Take the dance lessons if YOU want it but not to win her back. OK?
