Fresh separation - trying to play by the book

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Mozza - obviously it's up to you, but if you feel it's not the best thing to meet at the moment, you can always say so....Or you could suggest something that feels a little less full on - coffee maybe?

You could also let her know that you only have a limited amount of time, and very much keep the focus on the kids - not your R.

Also, all this talk about losing the love of your life etc - I find it just doesn't help to think that way. The sitch is hard enough without that. Just keep telling yourself, it's early days. I'll get through this etc. I found just thinking a few days ahead was all I could do and I didn't look any further ahead than that...

Best of luck anyway...