Mozza, it sounds heart-wrenching. Based on what I've read here so far is you need to stay strong and comport yourself as an independent, strong person, despite how impossible that may seem. If she is addressing divorce logistics, have suggestions and express your opinions/thoughts assertively and constructively. All business. Before you meet with her it may be good to do something that makes you feel strong and confident so you can ride that attitude into the discussion.

You can do it. Stay strong, and be the insightful intelligent guy she fell in love with. Do it for you. Good luck.


Me: 27
W: 23
M: Feb 2014
D: Sept 29
Petition Filed: Oct 18