blndsid - I can completely understand. Probably a good idea to listen to the veterans and take their advice. I'm too caught up in my situation to provide any clarity so I'll just wish you the best and I hope that you find peace and happiness.
My wife continues to delete conversations from her linkedin account and even lied about doing it. I really wish that she could be honest, with the continued lies its impossible for me to believe anything that she says.
I probably need to just man up and let her know that I appreciate her efforts but the marriage is over. Tough to do when you have a 4 year old and another on the way.