Feeling stronger than ever

[mleigh4]

Update and I need your input guys! H came home early from hunting last night, wasn't supposed to be back until today. The family friend he was with was not feeling well, he is about 70 so don't want to risk anything. Anyway, H was chipper as can be, telling us stories and showing S pics. I went to get S bath read and came across a small bottle of body wash in the spare bath shower. Now, it very well could be ours, I have tons of these from vacations, but it didn't look familiar. Some fancy organic brand.

So between this and knowing H had someone over while we were away, (food and drink containers in kitchen garbage), I needed to know. I wanted to believe FIL came over to watch Sharks game. So I ask H if he talked to his dad before he left to his trip to Hawaii yesterday. H said no, but that he texted him while hunting. So I said, oh, then who was over? H got a very blank, confused look on his face. I said again, who was over this weekend ? I saw drink containers in the garbage so looks like you had company. H, with same look, looked up in the air and answered real softly, Phil. I asked, who is Phil?? H answered, of course, a guy from work! I really get the feeling he is lying.

So I asked H to explain. He said he was too busy getting ready for hunting to come to our camp out, only 1/2 hour from home, but he found time to have Phil over. Another person I have never heard of or met? He just looks at me.

So I asked H, why do I get the feeling you are lying? He just said I don't know. I told H, this is our home. I hope to god you are telling me the truth. I said I know you are angry with me and don't think very highly of me, but that doesn't mean I can be treated with disrespect. I said I try so hard to believe you are telling me the truth about your concerts. Late nights out, trip to Tahoe, all with people I have never heard of. And now this along with finding body wash in our bathroom??? I said again, this is our HOME. The only thing he said over and over is I know. I know.

I will NOT tolerate someone coming into my home. But once again, I have no concrete proof. I go to see IC in an hour. What should I do???