I think in terms of your daughter's needs- she is old enough to give input about what she wants - but maybe in a month or two - when her feelings about her dad have settled a little bit.
And please- don't stop posting - I for one certainly want to know how you're doing. I feel like maybe I should move my thread to "MLC" or "Surviving Big D" since I feel like my story might be a bit of a downer for actual newcomers.
